It’s not always easy to get pregnant. Often times, it can be very frustrating and stressful. When you are trying to get pregnant, there are many thoughts that cross through your mind when it doesn’t happen. Am I infertile? Am I able to conceive? What is wrong with me?
A couple is usually considered infertile if pregnancy has not occurred after one year of unprotected, well-timed intercourse. Women over 35 or those with a family history of infertility should consult a doctor after six months of unprotected intercourse if pregnancy has not been achieved.
In approximately 35% of infertile couples, the problem can be traced to the female, and 35% of the time the problem can be traced to the male. In the remaining 30% the problem is shared by the male and female or is simply “unexplained.” Approximately 10% of couples of reproductive age experience infertility issues.
Before you give up hope, I am here to give you a little backstory and some advice. My first pregnancy came as a surprise. We weren’t trying at the time to have children and we were very happy when we found out. The second time around, it hasn’t been easy. As a matter of fact, it’s been a little confusing and often emotional. You see, when you are actually trying to have children, there is so much information to remember. Fertile days, cycle, ovulation… it can be a headache.
I have not been on birth control since I had my child 4 years ago. Although we haven’t actively been trying for 4 years, we have had the thought process of “if it happens…” and I have tried to track my cycle, ovulation, etc.
Four years later… it hasn’t happened. I started to think maybe something was wrong with me. My cycles are irregular which makes it almost impossible to time ANYTHING. I had really felt like there was some sort of issue, but I wasn’t ready to give up. Of course, unable to afford fertility treatments, I had done a little researching online. (Note: not diagnosing, just researching)
I decided to try the First Response Fertility Test. I figured I would give it a try. So glad I did. Although, I am not pregnant yet, it was able to tell me that I am still fertile and able to conceive. It offered a little glimpse of hope and I am now actively trying to get my cycle on track to where it is easier to conceive in the future.
Have you had any challenges or issues that you’d like to share with me?
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